| Nature
rules OK!
It’s
05H00 Monday the 25th April 2005 - I’m in a hut in
Shingwedzi camp in the northern Kruger National Park. I drove up
from Satara the day before in order to position myself for a 14-day
safari itinerary with a couple from the United Kingdom. Their safari
starts today and ends on the 9th of May 2005.
This will be
a testing itinerary. My son will be born by caesarian section on
the 4th of May – I will leave my guests for two days during
their safari (in the capable hands of field guide who will replace
me for the three days) My chef – Doug, will host a birthday
and anniversary “special occasion” meal on the 4th and
5th as my guests will celebrate his birthday, and their second wedding
anniversary on safari. I will return on the 6th and continue the
safari until the 9th when they depart.
All sorted –
everybody is happy with the arrangements. The correspondence and
planning started many months ago. 14 days guiding two people is
quite a long time and my head moves through the various landscapes
and eco-zones we’ll be moving in – the activities and
the evenings, my guiding will concentrate on observation, my guests
have requested that I guide them, and have specifically requested
that they are keen to learn and observe animal behaviour during
their time in the bush.
06H05
Monday the 25th April 2005 – I am about to leave
camp for Sirheni Bushveld camp – unpack and then drive up
to Punda Maria gate for 14H00 to collect my guests, I’ve reserved
an hour 05H00-0H600 to relax, watch the sunrise, listen to the birds
and basically mentally prepare for the next 14 days – and
then I get a phone call….
“Hi Neil
it’s Tina (my wife) I‘m in labour what should I do?”
Tina and
I had basically done just about everything humanly possible to allow
me the opportunity to be at my son’s birth – We had
visited the doctor a couple of days before to assess the situation
“Everything is on track for the fourth of June – This
boy will wait!”
My heart sank.
It’s going to happen and I’m not going to be there!
Tina and I had obviously talked about it before – Guiding
is a profession in which many personal compromises will need to
be made – this was going to be one of the biggest sacrifices
we would have to deal with.
06H10
– Monday 25th April 2005 – My emotions are
running wild – I can’t be there, and if I leave Shingwedzi
now – I’ll loose cell phone signal until just before
Babalala picnic spot – OK, I’ve got to move but I’m
torn between staying with the cellular signal or loosing it until
Babalala - Tina is organising someone to drive her to hospital and
I’m in the middle of the bush. My guests have just left JHB
and are now on their way to Punda Maria gate.
06H30
– Monday 25th April 2005 – I call Tina on her
cell phone. “Neil, I’m on my way to the labour ward
– I’ll let you know what’s happening when I get
there.” OK, I make a quick time calculation – I’ll
get to Babalala at about 07H45 – “I’ll call you
at 07H45 to find out – I should be at Sirheni at 08H15 –
I’ll call you from the public phone there. OK, good luck.”
My head is reeling – joy, sadness, frustration and worry all
mixing into a kind of quick seeping euphoria screams through my
veins – my heart pumping this tingling tonic of emotion into
my head as I drive towards Babalala picnic spot.
07H50
– Monday 25th April 2005 - I reach the turnoff (S57)
to Sirheni bushveld camp. No signal (I know it comes and goes) I
make a quick decision and head towards the camp.
08H15
– Monday 25th April 2005 - I get to the camp, jump
out of the vehicle and call Tina’s cellular number from the
public phone booth.
“Tina!”
“Neil
– Jack has arrived – Jack’s here he’s beautiful
Neil.”
Tina was crying,
I was crying – the joy, the lump in my throat and a all encompassing
urge to get home immediately – I could only hold on to the
phone as the Mopane bushveld around me blurred into a watery rinse.
It took a couple
of minutes, a couple of minutes for me to pull myself together,
a couple of minutes for the management and staff of Sirheni bushveld
camp to comprehend the situation (which must have been odd) A field
guide, open vehicle and trailer in tow, arriving at the gate, jumping
out of the vehicle, on the public phone immediately and then bursting
into tears and shouting “I’m a daddy!”
And of course
– a couple of minutes for reality to set in – I had
a few hours to unpack, set up the guests cottage and get my frozen
foods, etc into the camp freezer, and then head off to Punda Maria
gate to meet my guests and start guiding. I would not be able to
get home for eight nights – and I knew they would be the most
difficult eight nights away from home that I would ever have to
endure, especially since my news and needs must remain second to
my guests needs while on safari.
When my guests
arrived at Punda Maria they had their own news – His father
had sadly passed away a week before, and although they almost cancelled
the safari they had decided to dedicate their adventure to his memory
as he was the one who wanted them to see African wildlife in action
and it was because of his wish that they had not cancelled the safari.
All this plus a second wedding anniversary, a 30th birthday and
14 days in the presence of the greatest teacher of nature –
The Kruger National Park.
Nature rules,
OK! A sense of humility and complete understanding that no matter
how much we believe that we can manipulate the natural processes
of life and death – we cannot, and this still remains my biggest
lesson.
I made a cup
of substitute coffee from the roasted seeds of a Baobab tree –
it really is a pleasant drink, especially because this time I really
meant it when I commented – “From the tree of life –
We drink to the soul of Africa!”
Jack Douglas Heron
Born 06H55 25 May 2005
I include feedback
received from my guests on this particular safari.
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